What Americans Can Learn from the Mediterranean: 5 Simple Habits to Adopt Before You Move

Moving to a new country is an adventure filled with excitement and discovery, but it also comes with its share of challenges. When that country is Italy—a place romanticized for its slow pace, incredible food, and laid-back lifestyle—it’s easy to get caught up in the dream and forget the practicalities. The truth is, the very things that make Southern European life so appealing can also be the biggest hurdles for an American trying to adapt.

Based on the real-world experiences of our team, we've identified five simple habits that can make all the difference. These aren't just tips; they're a mindset shift that will help you transition from a visitor to a resident, navigating the quirks and charms of your new home with grace.

1. Learn the Language: Your Key to Connection

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Before I moved to Italy, I had no family or friends in the area. The thought of being completely on my own was daunting, and I knew that if I was going to build a life here, I needed to be able to connect with people. So, my number one piece of advice is to start learning the language now.

Learning Italian isn't just about ordering a coffee or asking for directions; it's about making friends, understanding your neighbors, and truly assimilating. It's the difference between being a tourist and a member of the community. We recommend our partner, SFIIS, to help you get started on your Italian language journey. It's the most important investment you can make in your new life.

2. Walk More, and Make It Your Daily Habit

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I tell all my friends and family this before they come to visit: "Walk everywhere! You need to be prepared to walk with groceries, and cope with not always being able to drive right away. Walking is a part of the lifestyle."

In Italy, life is lived on foot. The quaint cobblestone streets and bustling piazzas are not built for large American cars. From your morning coffee to your evening passeggiata (a leisurely stroll), walking is woven into the fabric of daily life. Focus on your physical health before you arrive. Start with a daily walk, take the stairs instead of the elevator, and practice carrying a heavy bag. This simple habit will not only improve your fitness but will also make it easier to embrace the Mediterranean lifestyle the moment you step off the plane.

3. Prepare for the Bureaucracy Nightmare

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Bureaucracy in Italy can feel like an impossible maze. I initially tried to apply for my citizenship on my own and nearly gave up. Even with my native Italian family's help, an uncooperative comune (town hall) almost broke me. The system can be slow, illogical, and frustrating.

My advice? Do your research before you leave, and locate a trusted resource on the ground. Understand the documents you'll need, the steps you'll have to take, and the patience required. Anticipating these challenges and having a plan in place will save you a lot of stress and prevent you from throwing in the towel before you even get started.

4. Master Your Money Management

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Before I moved, I didn't think much about how I would handle my finances. That was a big mistake. I struggled to make utility payments after I arrived, and the conversion rates from dollars to euros were a constant headache.

My recommendation is to get a handle on your money now. Open a Wise account and start converting dollars to euros when the conversion rate is in your favor. Get a physical Wise debit card. It’s a game-changer for making international payments and managing your finances with minimal fees. Being financially prepared will smooth out so many of the little frustrations you'll encounter and allow you to focus on the joys of your new life.

5. Practice the Art of Patience

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"The moment you start to get antsy or irritated, people will not want to help you," Jacqueline says. The mantra of Southern European living is piano, piano—slowly, slowly. This applies to everything.

Learn to linger. Savor your meal at a restaurant without checking your watch. Wait patiently for a bus that may or may not be on time.

Understand that bureaucracy moves at its own pace. This is not a sign of inefficiency; it’s a pillar of the slow-living philosophy. By adopting a patient mindset, you’ll not only find that people are more willing to help you, but you’ll also start to appreciate the unhurried pace of life that makes this part of the world so special.

Bonus Tips:

• Phone Prep: Before you leave, get a temporary international plan or, even better, set up a plan to get a local SIM card as soon as you arrive. Having a working phone number is crucial for everything from meeting up with people to making appointments.

• International Drivers Permit (IDP): If you plan on driving, get your IDP from AAA before you leave the U.S. Jennifer recommends this as a simple step that will save you a lot of trouble with Italian car rental agencies and police.